hedwig-dordt:

luaren:

things that are sex shaming -

  • "she’s a sl-t for having all that sex"
  • "girls shouldn’t wear tank tops to school because it is distracting"
  • "that skin tight dress means she’s asking for it"
things that are not sex shaming -
  • "I would prefer to not see a stranger’s butt"
  • "I do not want to hear explicit details about your sex life"
there’s a difference between sex shaming and wanting sexual security

It’s kinda sad we have explain these things, but here we are

So here’s the thing:

I’m still really upset. And I am upset at myself for being upset. Because it’s absolutely fucking ludicrous and stupid and I am really honestly just tired of it. Like seriously what is it going to take to change this, because all of the options I have thought of, I just can’t do.

IF MY MOM DOESN’T STOP KNOCKING ON THE SIDE PANELS OF THE HOUSE

I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD